| Empowering Widows in Developmentby Laura Slap-Shelton, 
      Psy.D.
 10-14-2000
 Margaret Owen, the author of A World of Widows, is the founder of 
      Empowering Widows in Development (EWD), a group dedicated to representing 
      the interests of widows world wide and to ensuring that the needs of 
      widows are recognized and addressed by international 
      organizations.  EWD is registered as a nonprofit group in the 
      United Kingdom, and is an unincorporated organization with a board of 
      Trustees, and an Advisory group.  EWD is currently applying for 
      Consultative Status with the United Nations. Owen is the founding 
      director.|  Courtesy of  Noah Addis of the Star-Ledger, N.J.
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 Owen's group grew out of an important meeting on Widow's 
      Rights that she organized at the 1995 Beijing Fourth United Nations 
      Conference on Women.  The Widow's Rights meeting identified the 
      myth believed by many in the West that widows in developing countries 
      are supported by their extended families and adult sons, local customs. The testimony of the widows at this meeting clearly 
      revealed the brutal realities of many widow's lives, highlighting the 
      failure of civil law, religion, and custom to protect women whose 
      husbands have died.  The consensus of the meeting was that 
      discrimination against widows is so severe that action must be taken to 
      bring their situation to the attention of the world. Some of the 
      truths about widows in developing countries are listed at EWD's website 
      (www.widowsrights.org/). 
      They are summarized here: *  When their husbands die widows in 
      developing countries rarely have the right to inherit property or to 
      have their rights enforced.  They are frequently evicted from 
      their property, their possessions taken from them, and often their 
      children are also removed from their care 
      and protection. *  Thus most widows live in severe 
      poverty *  Even where laws exist to protect women whose 
      husbands have died, the widows are generally not aware of their rights. 
      Even when they are, the courts are often controlled by local customs 
      which give all property to the women's in-laws, or their rights are 
      lost in the confusion generated by the conflicting systems of family, 
      local, religious and civil custom, all of which are patriarchal in 
      conception and organization. *  Widows are particularly vulnerable 
      to violence, sexual abuse and rape. Domestic violence is particularly 
      common. *  Coercive traditional burial and mourning rites 
      are often degrading and harmful to widows, and frequently involve 
      extreme limitations of their personal freedom, and non-consensual 
      sexual relations. * Homelessness, illiteracy, and poverty lead widows 
      into exploitative work situations. *  The extreme poverty and 
      precariousness of the widow's live leaves their children, and 
      particularly their daughters in extremely vulnerable positions. 
      Daughters of widows are more likely to marry very young, and become 
      widows themselves, thus recreating the cycle of poverty in their own 
      lives and in the next generation. * Thousands of widows are very young; 
      many are actually children. These facts about widows in 
      developing countries are ever more urgent given the recent huge 
      increase in the numbers of widows, especially young widows, due to 
      AIDS, conflict and ethnic cleansing. Widows in developing nations 
      are beginning to come together to work to gain their rights. However, 
      this type of organization is in its very beginning stages. Owen's 
      group writes that there is a need for changes in the rate of 
      illiteracy, improvement in education, and equal access to the legal 
      system. They note that research into the current needs of widows 
      is necessary to enable governments in identifying and addressing their 
      needs. EWD was set up to lobby and advocate for widows in 
      developing countries at the local, national, and international level. 
      It has been monitoring the status of widows in 10 countries (Nigeria, 
      Ghana, Zambia, Mozambique, Zimbabwe, Bangladesh, India, Uganda, 
      Tanzania, and Malawi). Reports on these countries can be found at their 
      web site. EWD has received funding from Sweden and the United 
      Kingdom. It is working with the United Nations on a proposal for 
      workshops on widows' health in Africa and Asia. EWD is also planning on 
      focusing on widows in Kosovo. A conference on widows is planned for 
      early 2001 in London. For information on how you can help to 
      further the work of EWD go to the Connections that Empower 
      page and/or contact EWD through their website. return to topreturn to widows international main page
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